Chaotic Stressors
I have a friend that
grew up with an alcoholic father. She
would describe her childhood as chaotic and unpredictable. She talks about how she was always trying to
make peace in the family and found it her job to be the caretaker especially to
her mother. She also found that she
would try to excel at every area to try to make everything better. Living in this chaotic environment, she found
safety in routine and schedules. To this
day, change can be hard and cause her anxiety.
She also felt ashamed and embarrasses of her father. She was worried what he would do next and did
not want him to show up at school functions.
She loved her father so she then felt guilty for having these
feelings. She learned at an early age
that you do not talk about it and you always smile and act like everything is
okay. According to the American Academy
of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry (Buddy, 2013) one in five adult Americans lived
with an alcoholic while growing up. The
effects of living with an alcoholic can last through the adult years. As a child, my friend did go to counseling
for a time and as an adult she has seek out counseling for herself. She has worked very hard to not take
responsibility for her father’s actions and not being responsible for her well-being.
Hunger in El Salvador
El Salvador has
held a special place in my heart since I had the opportunity to visit the
country during my college years. Child malnutrition is a
serious problem in El Salvador. Two out of
five children in El Salvador are likely to suffer from malnutrition. This is a serious problem as malnutrition can
case permanent cognitive, psychosocial and biosocial consequences. There are organizations that are trying to
help fight the problem of hunger. One organization
is Pizza Hut how teamed up with the United
Nations World Food Program that runs Nourishing El Salvador .
They held there third marathon to raise funds and awareness for
nutrition in El Salvador. They even had
local children participate in the event (Martinez, 2013) . Another organization that is helping is World Vision.
They are helping 25,000 girls and boys and this is through
sponsorship provided by people in the United States. The problem of nutrition is still a real
factor with things like earthquakes, drought, and hurricanes affecting the availability
of food (http://www.worldvision.org/content.nsf/6d1210430917461d8825735a007e2f2b/sponsor-el-salvador).
Reference
Buddy, T. (2013).
The effects of parental alcoholism on children. Retrieved February 1,
2014, from About.com Web Site: http://alcoholism.about.com/od/effect/a/The-Effects-Of-Parental-Alcoholism-On-Children.htm
El Salvador (n.d.) Retrieved February 1, 2014, from http://www.worldvision.org/content.nsf/6d1210430917461d8825735a007e2f2b/sponsor-el-salvador
Martinez,E. (2013). 4,000 children join the Puch
Marathon to support “Nourishing El Salvador”
Retrieved February 1, 2014, from http://www.wfp.org/stories/4000-children-join-puch-marathon-support-%E2%80%9Cnourishing-el-salvador%E2%80%9D
Your friend had a traumatic experience. Chaos doesn't suit the circumstance. Many children go through this experience in life where their parent is the biggest problem they have in life. I say to you just as I told Sherron, What doo you suggest we do to educate our parents so they can help educate their children.
ReplyDeleteEl Salvador has a very sad story. My family sponsors from world vision, but not an El Salvadoran. Thank you for bringing to light the plight of their children.
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